We live in a small community just outside of Rapid City. It is more like a suburb than anything. Just a few houses stretching along Interstate 90. It is peaceful. Quiet. Serene.

This time of year as I sit out on my front porch in the mornings our neighborhood is being besieged by the rumble of thousands and thousands of motorcycles traveling to Sturgis and through the Black Hills.

Many of the tourists are thrilled to come to our little state in the middle of the country. There isn’t a state mandate on wearing a mask. There isn’t a state law about wearing helmets (although highly encouraged). It is a beautiful state to travel through and get away from the hustle and bustle and violence of the bigger cities. And it is the first major event since the pandemic started. Most people just want to get out of their homes and escape for a little while.

And every year, without fail, residents (myself included) all over in our little towns complain about the noise, traffic, bad drivers, and sometimes rude people.

This year is different from most Rallys in the past. We have a viral epidemic in our country and the latest complaint is hardly anyone is wearing a mask to protect each other and our community members.

What does complaining actually accomplish? Absolutely nothing. I have done my share of complaining when the Rally creeps up on the calendar. Does my complaining change anything? Nope. The rally-goers are still going to come. So all I can do is accept what I can’t change and make decisions that I can control.

I can stock up on groceries so I do not have to drive anywhere. If for some reason I do have to go to town, I can be kind and courteous to the tourists that are here so they have a wonderful experience. I can teach our sons how to look at blind spots and slow down around motorcycle riders.

Yes, many locals still have to work, drive, and provide for their families. It can be difficult to navigate all of the people, motorcycles, and tourists in our areas. Some things we can control are: leave early, take your time, wear your PPE, wash your hands, listen to upbeat music, or listen to a book on the way to work just to name a few. Praying for a peaceful heart helps too!!

Whenever you are in a situation that is difficult it is easy to put the Complaint Hat on and stew about the problem. Take a step back and look at what you can do. Look at things with a “glass is half full” mentality. For example, what tourism and the Sturgis Rally does for South Dakota:

1. The tourism industry in South Dakota brings in an estimated $3.8 million tax dollars in revenue to our state. https://sdvisit.com/
2. Many of our teachers work during the Rally as a supplemental income.
3. Many of our families rent out homes, lawns, and rooms to supplement their incomes.

In the grand scheme of things complaining doesn’t work. It may feel better to get things off your chest, but it only lasts for a little while. This is only temporary.

We need to change our thought process to the positive side of things. We can be courteous to our visitors. Give suggestions on places to see for our out-of-towners. If things are a little crazy outside your door, stay home for a while. When it seems like things are too loud, invite your neighbors and friends over and have your own Rally party with music, drinks, and food. We can help those who need help. A little bit of kindness never hurt anybody.